Are you looking for a marriage bureau in India with a lot of profiles of prospective brides and grooms dealing with vitiligo (leucoderma)? Well, honestly speaking, you will hardly find any specific marriage bureau which boasts to have the database of thousands of people with vitiligo from all parts of the country. Most of the marriage bureau services are area specific. They will offer profiles from a particular region or state; also, the number of candidates with vitiligo will be hardly 10, 20 or at max 100.
Luckily, there is an online matrimonial site, DermaMatrimony.com, that has thousands of registered members dealing with vitiligo or other skin conditions such as psoriasis, albinism, eczema, neurofibroma, ichthyosis, burn, scar, birthmark, etc. This website aims to provide a safe and easy to use platform to people dealing with various skin conditions to find their life partners. It works well on desktop, mobile phone and tablet. All the registered members need to verify their mobile numbers and a government issued ID card to ensure their authenticity.
In today’s digital world, we use Internet related online services for a wide range of everyday requirements, from grocery shopping to cab booking to travel tickets. Then, why not to explore a full-fledged online platform to find the desired life partner? No other platform than DermaMatrimony.com can offer so many profiles of people with vitiligo because neither the marriage bureaus nor the leading matrimonial sites have a separate section for people with skin conditions.
Hence, Derma Matrimony is the one stop solution for you if looking for a life partner dealing with vitiligo.
Why marriage is a matter of concern for people with vitiligo
Vitiligo is a non-contagious, non-fatal and non-painful skin condition. It doesn’t spread by living together or having a physical relationship. But, due to lack of awareness about this innocent skin condition, people with vitiligo faces social discrimination and getting married becomes a major challenge.
It has a weak genetic component; various clinical trials have concluded that out of 100, 15-20 people have a family history of vitiligo. It means, someone in the immediate family (parents, siblings), or the close relatives (grandparents, cousins, uncles/aunts) also dealing with the same condition. But, 15-20% is not a big deal. Moreover, there are so many common lifestyle disorders, including diabetes, hypertension, thyroid and asthma, got a genetic link as well. So, why such a big noise about vitiligo? May be because the other issues are skin deep, whereas vitiligo patches are just there on the skin; exposed to the whole world.
Medically, vitiligo is not dangerous. It doesn’t pose any serious, long term effects on the physical and mental health of a person. But, people’s discriminating behavior can make someone low in self esteem to develop a tendency of social isolation.
There are many incidences where spreading of vitiligo after marriage becomes the ground for divorce because the same partner who was completely comfortable with vitiligo before marriage now don’t want to continue anymore with a person having these lifelong white skin patches. In such incidences, most of the times, the women become the victim because there is a sort of obsession for flawless skin and every husband wants a perfect wife with clear skin. Even if the husband accepts vitiligo, the in-laws can compel to break the marriage because they may afraid of vitiligo in next generation (kids) also.
Considering all these complications, many youngsters are choosing their life partners with the same skin condition so that they don’t need to worry about their skin condition anymore. Having lost enough time on trying various treatments and fighting the social stigma, now they wish to focus on their ‘real’ life goals. When the partner has the skin condition, there is no threat even if it increases after marriage. The in-laws will also not develop any unrealistic expectations as far as skin condition is concerned.
To sum up, instead of seeking a so-called ‘normal’ skinned person and spending the whole life in a constant anxiety and stress that one day your life-partner may leave you alone, it’s better to marry someone who accepts you as you are considering all the long term consequences of vitiligo.
Why to trust DermaMatrimony.com?
DermaMatrimony.com is the brainchild of Ashish Agarwal, a person dealing with psoriasis since 2005. Having experienced all sorts of challenges due to psoriasis, he is committed to bring some much required positive change with this matrimonial platform.
Let’s create a world where people with skin conditions can meet their life-partners in a joyful manner without any fear of future consequences. We have already spent a big portion of our lives thinking about our skin conditions. Let’s ensure we don’t spend anymore after marriage. It’s time to think about other important aspects of the life. Enough of this skin thing! Having a life-partner with similar skin condition means no more fear of judgement or feeling of insecurity forever. Isn’t it amazing?
Being a member of this big community of people with skin conditions, he exactly understands the challenges in marriage and running this matrimonial platform as a social initiative than a business venture. The membership fee is very nominal; just to meet the running cost of the project.
Success stories of DermaMatrimony.com
This website was made public on 20th March, 2018 and within a short span, it already has plenty of success stories to its credit. DermaMatrimony.com has played an instrumental role in uniting many of the couples dealing with Vitiligo. You can read about all the success stories here.
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